One of the great things about being a San Francisco city hall wedding photographer is the fact that we get exposed to many different cultures on a daily basis. By far one of the more frequent types of weddings we cover are from the Chinese culture. In some cases we have actually photographed weddings where the couple actually was visiting from China. Some didn't even speak English which created a whole new challenge, but a fun one. In fact, when faced with non-English speaking couples, we show them the poses rather than telling them. One of the benefits of handling most of our weddings with 2 wedding photographers is the fact that we can demonstrate some of the poses for our couples. In most cases, this isn't necessary, but it's a nice option to have. In the picture above, we did something we have not tried too often because it can be tricky. We put a light way behind the couple and then remotely fired it to great backlight.
Through the years we have also learned to work with each culture in a way that works best for them. Sometimes this means being very outgoing and fun-loving and sometimes we will be more reserved. Success in the wedding photography business comes from knowing how to adapt to each client and making them feel comfortable during the actual shoot. Uncomfortable brides and grooms often lead to wedding photos that look forced and not natural. Whether we are working with Chinese, Korean, or any other Asian culture, we try to work with each couple closely. We discovered that many Asian couples feel uncomfortable kissing in front of their parents. It helps to understand these types of things so we do not ask our couple to do anything that they prefer not to. There are many other cultural differences regarding Asian Marriages, but they are too numerous to list here. The important thing to know is that we respect these issues and make sure we are doing the right thing and keeping everyone comfortable and happy.